I am not looking for anyone in particular. I think whoever reads the part that tells who I am can figure it out. But here goes just cause they ask: I am not prejudice, if this helps. I like older men(fairly healthy ones) but younger men are more often attracted to me. I would like a man who is not your average run-of-the-mill type person and yet still has some sanity left after walking such an unpopular road in our society. Sometimes I think I would like to meet a writer because he would have days on end when he would not want to relate to anyone including me. Then, when he felt more socialble, after writing some cool stuff, he would be in sn interesting and intellegent mood. And of course, a great lover. Is this enough? I could add that I don\'t care if he has money or not. I do care that he is not strug out on something or other and this is the reason he has no money. I don\'t mind if he is rich but not obsessed with power and money and not a snob. I have friends from all walks of life and they are all wonderful people with or without money etc. I don\'t mind men who are into porn but not a porn junkie. I don\'t mind a drinker but not an alcoholic. I don\'t mind animals but not when they are dirty and make the whole house smell. I like clean but not fanatics. I guess I don\'t like extreme behaviors but different is great.